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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Free Wedding Planning

Free wedding planning will help you save a sufficient amount of money on planning a wedding. Even though numerous companies and private people currently offer their wedding planning services, these services tend to be rather expensive. Furthermore, even if you find an affordable planner, it might make you feel left out or even out of control, if another person manages the planning of your wedding.

How can you plan your wedding on your own? There are two main approaches: free online or downloadable wedding planning software, or a regular spreadsheet application.

1. Free Wedding Planning with the Use of a Spreadsheet

If you have a good command of any spreadsheet application, you can simply turn it into an excellent wedding planner. Spreadsheet application would help you easily calculate the costs, manage the budget, and manage all other aspects of planning a wedding.

Advantages of this method are as follows: no need to research for free wedding planning software, and no need to install that software on your computer in case it's downloadable software. Furthermore, this method eliminates any headache that may arise from incompatibility of some applications with some computers (e.g., Mac) or a certain operating system. Furthermore, some tools have a "not very user-friendly" interface, and using a spreadsheet would eliminate the need of learning how to use this new program.

The drawbacks are as follows: since you would not be using a specialized tool, you would need to do all the required research on your own, searching for the wedding etiquette information, guides about wedding ceremonies, the order of events, and hundreds of things- to-do needed for a wedding.

2. Free Wedding Planning with the Use of a Wedding Planning Software

Free wedding software is another easy way to plan a wedding on your own and free of charge. There are many online tools that do not even require installation, allowing for their easy use in any browser.

The benefits of using such a tool are that this is a specialized application, which generally comprises all of the aspects of planning a wedding. In fact, this might be beneficial and negative at the same time, since such a tool may provide you with too many features and possibilities, "making your eyes cross". However, more is better than less, and you can rest assure that you will find any possible detail of things needed to be done.

The bottom line: you can easily plan your wedding on your own and at no cost, if you simply choose to use a regular spreadsheet application or free online or downloadable wedding planning software.
~Adam Gaines

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Wedding Planners Event Coordinator

Any event, wedding inclusive can be a day one would like to remember, but this can only be if it has been well planned and coordinated. Those who have wedded have said that their wedding day is the greatest day of their lives. Despite this, some of the minor things that may have been ignored can cause much havoc and dissatisfaction, some of which can be long-lived. One may not want to imagine what would happen if during the d-day, the photographer or the driver does not turn up. Another tragedy can be if another group had already booked the venue that had been planned for.

An event coordinator does the work of organizing and coordinating public or private events, appearances and events. This entails organizing participants, securing appropriate venues, notifying those who may attend and organizing them, acquiring the relevant tools, equipment and materials and finally to organize and delegate duties to those assisting him or her during the day of the event. On the other hand, the wedding planner also referred to as the wedding consultant is the mediator, the money manager and the facilitator.

There are several character traits that a planner should posses. Obviously, he or she should be patient and calm even when things seem to be going asunder. He also very importantly should be a good negotiator as he would be the one who does all the orders and the purchasing on behalf of the bride and the bridegroom such as buying the gown and the other attire, get the catering team, hire the venue, musicians, public address system, photographers and so on. This is because only the best is required but at the cheapest rate. He must also be somebody who can network meaning that he or she handles differently people and issues at the same time. A good wedding planner should also be one who has a sense for proper fashion, which includes the color, the flowers, the music and the clothing. It would be so embarrassing if there were no color coordination in the clothing or the flowers and the decorations. This means that they must take their time in studying on the topic from the magazines or the internet.

The event planners must be prepared to work for long hours especially just before and during the event which may include much traveling and moving up and down to make sure that the purpose of the meeting is achieved. Therefore, the first thing that the planners need to know is the nature and the purpose of the meeting. That would then motivate delegates or the audience. All the work ranging from bookings, reception, stationery issuing, vehicle parking, accommodation, decorations among others should be done focusing on that aim.

One of the companies that specialize on the Sasha Souza of the United States that offers services such as, destination weddings and the green They have a large team that can handle different events at the same time.
~Rafi Michael

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Wedding Service Providers - Why Choose Them?

Weddings are one of the milestones in many people's lives. It is not only a milestone for the couple getting married but in many cases, for their parents as well. Naturally, the persons involved in this celebration of the union of two people who choose and commit to share their lives together, want to make the occasion as meaningful and as memorable as they possibly can.

Most weddings still follow the traditional way but themed or personalized weddings are becoming popular. One reason why there is an increase in those choosing themed weddings is that there is also an increase in couples coming from diverse backgrounds or cultures that plan to get married.

Whether you plan to have a traditional or a themed wedding, both require a lot of effort to push through. Of course, it is already understood that money is needed. But, you get what you pay for so they say and spending out a little extra for a professional wedding provider can reap rewards not least of which is peace of mind.

In this age of smaller families, many brides have fewer relatives to ask for help from in the wedding preparations. Luckily, there are now professional weddings service providers to help the wedding participants with their expertise and experience in planning and coordinating weddings. Modern communications make it easier to search and contact these wedding services providers. There are also wedding expositions where you can meet a lot of wedding services providers exhibiting the services they offer.

They will take the weight off of your shoulders and take the strain of the preparations. This means that you can concentrate on other things and leave the important tasks to the wedding provider.


~Mark Clayson

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Top 5 Custom Wedding Gifts For the Couple Who Has Everything


Custom wedding gifts are becoming more and more popular among shoppers and gift-givers. The main benefit of getting a couple custom gifts is that you can find suitable items that come in sets or pairs at a low price. When you compare shopping online versus offline, you'll be able to get more from your set budget since you don't need to pay for additional costs such as for gas, other unnecessary shopping items, as well as snack foods.

You can browse from hundreds of online stores in a matter of minutes and there will definitely be a couple of items that will fit your recipients' tastes and of course your budget too. Remember that you are giving a special gift to a couple and it is advisable to give them something for their new home or for them to use. To give you an idea of what the internet has to offer, here are the top 7 suggested custom wedding gifts for the couple.

(1) Monogrammed pillow cases and bed sheet
One way to customize your gifts for the couple is to have their gifts monogrammed. In this case, they will need several items for their own home or apartment when they finally move in together after the honeymoon. A set of monogrammed pillow cases and bed sheet are great customized wedding gifts since you can find an online store to order from, they're usually not expensive and the couple will remember you because you went the trouble in having these items especially-made for them.

(2) His and her bath set
It is easy to find custom bath sets that range from $20 to $60. But if you have set a budget of $100 for a wedding gift, why not go the extra mile and include in a pair of bath towels or bath robes for the couple and have them embroidered with their initials or nicknames. You can find online stores that offer personalization services from etching, embroidery, etc. and the cost is very minimal if not free. You can choose from a custom set of bath products already packaged or you can hand-pick the products yourself and have the online store wrap and ship it for you.

(3) Monogrammed champagne flutes or wine glasses
There will always be other special occasions that the couple will celebrate. It is nice to give them monogrammed or etched champagne flutes or wine glass set for their home. Have the items wrapped and shipped directly to their home if you wish to buy from an online store. Offline stores may not offer etching or customization services, but some stores may refer you to a service shop for a cost.

(4) Customized beverage tub
As mentioned earlier, there will be occasions that the couple will celebrate in the months and years to come, so why not give them the gifts that they will need for entertaining guests. Customized beverage tubs may only be available online since you need to order it and have it etched or engraved with the couple's last name or initials. Galvanized or tin tubs give that homey but rustic feel. Plastic tubs are also great since they are lightweight and can be painted with the couple's initials. Best of all, this item is usually affordable. You can include other items such as beer mugs or ice buckets to complete the ensemble.

(5) Customized wedding photo quilt
This is a great way to have the couple remember their special day and of course you, the gift-giver. You need to ask the couple first regarding their favorite wedding photos before you can have the item custom-made. This gift is a post-wedding gift, but it is all worth it once the couple see the end product. You can also order it already framed from selected online stores.
`Emily Garmona

Monday, August 17, 2009

Guide For Personalized Wedding Favor Tags

Your wedding is all about sharing your special day with the people you love. Wedding favors are a great way to show your appreciation for the people who helped you get where you are as a couple and as a thanks for sharing your special day.

Many wedding favors can be used to decorate your reception location. Favors such as coasters and kitchen gadgets can also be useful tools your wedding guests can use in their homes.

Since these favors have purposes other than just to announce your wedding, a personalized wedding tag can provide a great option for customizing your favors. The tags can also be used in your wedding scrapbook or in family and friends' scrapbooks.

You can find personalized wedding tags to match almost any wedding décor. Here is a guide to personalized wedding tags.

Use the tags to personalize bridesmaids' gifts such as bracelets, bags or a spa kit.

Here are some examples of how personalized favor tags can be used to make your wedding favors more special:

For a destination wedding, airplane luggage tags are a great way to send your guests off in style. Use the coordinating tags to add a special message.

For a beach wedding, give guests a seashell reminder of your wedding in the sand with this seashell gel candle with personalized tag. Spread the love with the seashell spreader and personalized tag.

For a cute shower giveaway, use these purse-shaped tags with the matching manicure set.

Practical gifts don't have to be boring. Spice them up with a personalized gift tag. For instance, whip up a little appreciation with personalized tags for this heart-shaped whisk. Your guests can add a little love to their recipes with this olive oil bottle. Personalize it with a matching favor tag. Give your guests a little cheer with their next bottle of wine. This wine opener and stopper set and personalized designer tag makes a great wedding or rehearsal dinner favor.

Here are some tips for using personalized tags for your wedding favors.

1. Match the color and style of the tag to your décor or theme. Get something cute like a shell-shaped tag for your beach wedding or a heart-shaped tag for your Valentine's Day celebration.

2. Be sure to order the tags early enough to get them secured to the giveaways. This means you need to allow time for printing and shipping. Order tags at least six weeks before the wedding to allow you time to assemble.

3. Get a favor assembling team. This will save you lots of time. Assign tasks to each person. Have one tie ribbons. Have another attach the tag to the string. Have another attach the tag to the favor.

by:Ashley Rader


Wednesday, July 15, 2009

tips for the weds

Getting married is a truly exciting time for the happy couple and that excitement can lead to a very expensive occasion but it doesn't have to be like that. You can get married for less with these cheap wedding ideas.

There are many ways to limit your total spend on the wedding, just because you have a budget does not mean it has to be a dull day.

You can have a wonderful day, which of course it should be and still not break the bank. Remember the point of getting married, it is because you want to be with your partner and to show your devotion in a formal manner.

Flashy weddings are for the celebrities who feel the need to impress their friends and the glossy magazines so leave them to it. A British newspaper recently featured couples who got married for less than £500, do they love each other any less? I do not believe so.

Probably the single most expensive item for the day will be the wedding dress. This is also one of the most important items to the bride, men, take note you will have to take a back seat here. You can trim the cost if you try, by looking at used wedding dress, gasp, horror, used wedding dress? OK, lets take a look at it from this angle, many brides will marry in a vintage wedding dress, for vintage read secondhand.

A used wedding gown can be bought from many places and when you consider it has probably only been worn once if at all then a slightly less expensive dress can be a great saving. You can buy fabulous wedding dresses online so check it out.

The next items are the rings, huge diamonds may look impressive but a plain gold band will be more practical, less likely to lose a stone and be cheaper to insure! Remember it is not the size of the diamond but the size of the heart that gives it.

The wedding breakfast can be made cheaper by inviting a small gathering of family and close friends, wedding venues make a fair amount of money out of catering for weddings so reduce the number of guests and you reduce the cost. If you want a big party for everyone that you have ever met, do it after the honeymoon at a cheaper venue. You will be more relaxed then anyway and probably enjoy it more.

The wedding cake does not have to be a massive commercially made one, if you have a friend who loves cooking ask her to make one, it will make her day and probably be tastier.

A major expense will be the honeymoon if you let it. Think ahead, holidays vary considerably in price throughout the year so if you are set on a couple of weeks in the Caribbean plan your wedding for the cheaper times. Organizing a long haul holiday can be stressful at the best of times so consider a short break in a country hotel instead, you have the rest of your lives to see the world. I hope you find these cheap wedding ideas useful.

`Norman Stanley

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Its All About the Wedding

Wedding accessories are small details but paying close attention to it will make the whole event appear more polished. These accessories are items used at the ceremony and the reception. Some are for the purposes of presentation while some are for symbolic value.

The basic accessories used in the ceremony involve the following: decorations; guest books and albums; pens; pillows and ring boxes, baskets and bags; unity candles and garters. These small details play a part big in the ceremony.

The decorations set the romantic and festive mood of the wedding. Decorations consist of visually appealing materials such as flowers, fabrics, lights and fixtures. These decorations often follow a specific color theme for a sophisticated and refined look.

Guest books and albums are accessories that help document the event. Guest books contain names, addresses and signatures of those who actually attended the wedding. These not only serve as a remembrance but also as a guide when the newlyweds are writing their "thank you" cards. The guest books go with the pen so that there won't be delays when the guests sign. Pens are also present after the ceremony when the newlyweds sign their marriage contract.

Albums, on the other hand, contain photos taken during the entire event. Just like the guest books, it also serves as a remembrance. It is a visual narration of the events that transpired during the occasion.
Pillows and ring boxes also form part of wedding accessories. These little containers make the wedding trinkets look more presentable when used during the ceremony. Wouldn't it be inappropriate when the ring to be worn by the couple is just handed by the ring bearer without the silky cushion?

Baskets and bags are also considered as accessories. These containers are held by the flower girls and contain flower petals and confetti's. Petals and confetti's are to be scattered by the flower girls before the bride makes and her entrance and after the newlyweds leave the venue.

Other accessories such as unity candles, cords and arras are included because of what it symbolizes. Unity candles symbolize the light that will guide the couple as they journey into the married life together. The cords symbolize the union of two souls, making them inseparable forever. Arras is a wedding accessory not commonly used in wedding ceremonies. It is a symbol of wealth and prosperity. It also represents the role of the husband as the bread winner of his family.

Taking a close look on wedding accessories is important. These accessories may be small details in a wedding but if combined, they play an important part in the success of the wedding.

To your beautiful wedding!--Bobbie Hamilton


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Let me leave you with this Christian marriage advice: He parted the Red Sea. He made the sun to stand still. He made a way for His creation to come back to Him by coming into the world. If those things are true (they are) then can't He also save your marriage no matter what you have been through?

The wedding cake is truly the showpiece of the reception. Cakes have become more creative, and also follow trends in design and fashion like never before. These are some of the hottest trends for wedding cakes in 2009.

Clean lines are king right now. The smooth-as-glass finish of fondant icing is still all the rage at most weddings, and one stand-out design feature is more popular than a busy cake with a pattern all over it. One interesting trend in wedding cakes has to do with the layers. The basic look of three stacked round layers is still the most common, but you are also seeing a lot more of cakes that are square, octagonal, hexagonal, or a combination of round and shaped layers. Offset layers, which are stacked slightly off-kilter are also a hot look for wedding cakes right now.

When it comes to cake decorations, truly you can have anything that your heart desires. There is nothing that a skilled baker cannot create out of sugar, gum paste, or royal icing. That said, there are some definite trends for decorations for 2009 wedding cakes. Most lean towards being mod or minimalist.

The most minimalist cakes consist of three to five round layers covered in smooth white fondant. The only decoration is a colored ribbon around the base of each layer and perhaps a monogrammed medallion on the side of the center layer. These cakes are kept very simple, with no cake topper. They are very urban chic, though they may be too simple for some brides.

Mod design is also something that is being seen in wedding cakes these days. Round circles layered over fondant is one cool effect. Simplistic sugar flowers are another big trend. They are often scattered over the cake in varying density, such as many flowers clustered near the top of the cake, gradually thinning out to just a few blossoms scattered at the base of the cake.

Another very popular trend is to have a vine of sugar flowers set diagonally down one side of the cake. The flowers can be large or small, subtle or colorful, but they are usually done in only one branch, leaving the rest of the cake plain. Although fresh flowers will never be out of style for wedding cake decorations, they are not being seen as much this season.

Brides are still interested in having cakes designed that complement their bridal ensemble in some way. For a very unique look, cover a cake in large white sugar "pearls" which are dusted with an opalescent powder. This is a fun and modern reference to classic pearl bridal jewelry. If crystal bridal jewelry is more your style, you can adorn your cake with clear molded sugar "crystals" arranged in a geometric design. Note that the sugar crystals are intended to mimic clear crystals, not silvery rhinestones. It is a more subtle style than the ornate cake jewelry that has been seen in recent years.

The great thing about a wedding cake is that you can have whatever you want. So, take some pointers from the latest trends, or choose to go in another direction; the choice is entirely yours. In the nd, all that matters is that you love the way your wedding cake looks, and that your guests love how it tastes.--Bridget Mora